Premarital Questionnaire – Building on a Strong Foundation

Welcome to the Bonded by Grace premarital questionnaire. These questions are designed to help you and your future spouse know each other more deeply – not to judge, condemn, or “pass a test.”

Marriage is a holy covenant, and a lifelong journey of learning, growing, and loving each other through every season. These questions will help you:

• Talk honestly about your values, expectations, and life experiences.
• Identify areas where you are aligned – and areas where you’ll need to grow together.
• Start important conversations now, instead of being surprised later.
• Invite God into your relationship as you prepare for marriage.

What These Questions Are Not

As important as these questions are, they do not determine the full outcome of your marriage. A strong marriage is not built in a questionnaire – it is built day by day, decision by decision, as you:

• Work hard to love, respect, and understand each other.
• Choose forgiveness instead of resentment.
• Communicate with honesty and humility.
• Keep God at the center of your home and your decisions.

How to Use These Questions

Approach this time with a spirit of grace, patience, and openness. These questions are meant to:

• Help you listen, not attack.
• Help you understand, not assume.
• Help you grow closer, not grow apart.

Take your time. Pray together before you begin. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your thoughts, your words, and your hearts. Remember:

These questions are a tool – not a verdict. They will help you start strong, but you will keep growing and learning more about each other as you live together, serve together, and walk with God together in marriage.

When you’re ready, begin the questionnaire below and let this be a step toward a Christ-centered, grace-filled marriage.